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I have been “Working’ th’ door” for about 13 years. Over that time I have
talked to many fellow bouncers about what they do and how they do it. As
varied as the individuals, some younger, some older or even much older,
some big and intimidating some, slight and passive, and so were their
answers. However,I wanted to find out what the official definition for
BOUNCER was so I looked up the word in a few sources:
Bounc-er n. [slang] a person hired to remove disorderly people from
a nightclub, restaurant, etc…
Warner Books c. 1990; Webster’s New World Dictionary
Bounc-er n. [slang] a person employed to restrain or eject disorderly
persons
http://www.m-w.com/cgi-bin/dictionary
book=Dictionary&va=bouncer&x=19&y=8
Bounc-er n. [slang] guard at nightclub: a security guard who usually
stands at the door of a nightclub or other place of entertainment and is
responsible for preventing undesirable people from entering and or ejecting
troublemakers
http://encarta.msn.com/dictionary_/bouncer.html
I pretty much had that figured out. Yet, I wasn’t satisfied. Some of
the “bouncers” I talked to rarely had to eject someone or looked like, and in a
couple of instances just plain couldn’t eject anyone (but then there were
those who could). Many defined themselves as “Security”. So, I looked that
up as well...
Se-cu-ri-ty n 2: protection; safeguard
Warner Books c. 1990; Webster’s New World Dictionary
Se-cu-ri-ty n. PROTECTION b (1) : measures taken to guard
against espionage or sabotage, crime, attack, or escape (2) : an organization
or department whose task is security
http://www.m-w.com/cgi-bin/dictionary?
book=Dictionary&va=security&x=25&y=9
Se-cu-ri-ty n. 4. safety: protection against attack from without or
subversion from within
5. precautions to maintain safety: precautions taken to keep somebody or
something safe from crime, attack, or danger
6. guards: people or an organization entrusted with the job of protecting
somebody or something, especially a building or institution, against crime
http://encarta.msn.com/dictionary_/security.html
Wow! Okay. I could see why many of the people at the door I talked to
defined themselves as security….security sounds a little more nobler doesn’t
it? Verses the image of a hairy-armed knuckle dragger that the term bouncer
creates. However security can sound haughty if not misleading in some
instances and bouncer….well, I hate turning into one. I prefer “Doorman” or
Doorwoman as the case may be. My Webster’s dictionary states:
Door’man n. One whose work is opening the door of a building,
hailing cabs, etc…
In most large cities and overseas the doorman also has the capacity to act
as a bouncer, and usually screens guests as a form of security. Also, In this
day and age of WMDs, psychos, and terrorism, the average Doorman has
more to be concerned with than just disorderly patrons. The image and the
persona of the establishment you represent can be painted by your actions
or inactions.
Mindset plays a key role in most everything you do. In my mind I am not
some dumb bouncer who likes to bully, and intimidate the very people who
are contributing to my salary. Nor am I some stuffy spooked-out high-and-
mighty security snob. I am a Doorman, someone who helps people, can
show people a good time, and yet be vigilant
Skill sets
I have found over the years that I have had to use almost all of my skill sets
to not only to do my job competently, which is essentially protecting the
owner’s property and liquor license, but to survive.
The skill-sets I refer to are not just physical, although they have come in
handy from time to time (more on that later), but mental, emotional, as well
as psychological. For instance. Biting your lip when an unruly patron is
verbally abusing you because you deny them entry, or dealing with the
stress of administering first-aid on a gruesomely lacerated customer, and
even sometimes upholding rules that may make no sense to you or the
patron, yet being the face or herald of that ill-logic.
However, no matter how you define them you can be sure that bouncers are someone's daughter or son, brother or sister, or someone's father or mother.
In this next series of articles I will attempt to educate, motivate, and dispel
some of the myths and stereotypes of the people who work the door of your
favorite hangout and who often put themselves on the line for your safety and
peace of mind.
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